From left, Ronald and Ann Ross and Derrick and Lynda Tomlinson on their wedding day on February 15th, 1975
Lynda Tomlinson and Ann Ross, 61, even met their respective spouses on the same day when the pair approached them on the dancefloor of their favourite club.
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Ann began seeing Ron Ross while Lynda started a relationship with his life-long pal Derrick Tomlinson.
Remarkably, the two couples got engaged on May 13, 1973 before the twins both married when they were 20 on February 15, 1975.
Twins Lynda (left) and Ann are now supporting one another after tragically losing their husbands just a day apart
The sisters work as dinnerladies and cleaners at the same school, while Ron was a polisher at Rolls-Royce and Derrick worked as a driver.
But Derrick was forced to stop working eight years ago because of diabetes which saw him lose all of his toes then his left leg.
Tragically, Ron - who was diagnosed with bowel cancer a year ago - died the day after his 64th birthday on February 7, at the Royal Derby Hospital.
Derrick suffered a heart attack and a stroke alongside kidney problems and blood poisoning, and passed away aged 61 at the same hospital just a day later.
Twins Ann (left) and Lynda (right) were walked down the aisle by their father John Henry Green (centre) at St Werburgh's Church in Spondon
Lynda and Ann will now bury their husbands, who grew up living next door to each other, in a joint service next Wednesday.
Today, the heartbroken twins said they both slept at the hospital where the two men were in different wards, for the last couple of days.
Mum-of-three Ann, who lives in Chaddesden, Derby, said: 'At least they have gone together.
'If it would have happened a month or two apart then we would have gone through it all again.
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'He always bought me flowers and a card on Valentine's Day. I've lost my husband and my best friend.'
Grandmother-of-six Lynda, who lives in Spondon, Derby, added: 'We both slept there for the last couple of nights, I couldn't have done it on my own.
'When Derrick was taken ill with kidney problems I used to visit him and then I would go to the Macmillan Unit to visit Ron and Ann would come down and we would swap.
'It is a miracle that they have been taken together, our special bond as twins has definitely helped us cope with it together.
'I loved Derrick to bits and will miss him forever.
'We did everything together, I don't know how I'll do it now he's gone. This is the saddest time of my life.'
As well as his wife Lynda, Derrick leaves behind two daughters, Marie Freeman, 37, and Sarah Stayley, 35, and six grandchildren aged between four and 17.
Ron leaves behind Ann and their three children, Andrew, 31, Adam, 28, and 23-year-old Lindsay.
Cutting the cake: The couples, Derrick and Lynda (left) and Ann and Ron (right), shared the same engagement and wedding day
A joint funeral service will be held for lifelong friends Ron and Derrick at the Markeaton Crematorium in Derby
The twins met their husbands, who loved going to watch their beloved Derby County FC, at their favourite nightclub Tiffany's in Derby.
Ann, who grew up with her sister in Spondon, said: 'We were dancing on the dancefloor.
'I remember seeing Ron standing there with a pint of beer, because they didn't dance, then they offered to buy us a drink.'
Lynda added: 'Ron was quieter whereas Derrick used to talk a lot more.
'Me and Ann used to dress the same so one time when we were in the toilet we decided to swap to see if they'd notice.
'We went back down and sat in each other's seats. Eventually they cottoned on after about 10 minutes, I can't remember why but they realised at the same time.'
The twins were walked down the aisle by their father at the same time when they got married at St Werburgh's Church in Spondon.
Ann said: 'My dad walked us both down the aisle that day. Derrick trod on Lynda's dress so she had to yank it up.
'We had the reception at the Railway Institute in Wellington Street.
'I remember we paid for a buffet for 200 people and when it came out there was only enough food for about 20 of us.'
Speaking about Derrick's battle with diabetes, Lynda added: 'He lost all of his toes and eventually lost his left leg, so he couldn't work.
'He was housebound a lot of the time because of his leg but he loved his grandchildren so much and spent so much time with them.'
Ron was admitted to the Royal Derby Hospital because of his bowel cancer on Christmas Day last year.
Ann said: 'He had chemotherapy for six months but the doctors told us it wasn't shrinking.
'They told us he only had a few weeks to live. He opened his Christmas presents in the Macmillan Unit. He cried when he saw the Kevin Hector picture I had bought him, he loved them all so much.'
A funeral service will be held for the pair at Markeaton Crematorium in Derby at 10am on Wednesday.
Guests are asked to wear bright colours and any contributions will be given to Macmillan Cancer Support.
The close sisters (Lynda, left and Ann, right), even worked together as dinnerladies and cleaners at the same school
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